You can't have a whole life if you only look at, tend to and practice perfection as much as you can’t have a whole life if you practice zero awareness or attention.
There's beauty and a wholeness in the grey area.
Just as a perfectly portioned, nutrient dense gold star-of-a-diet could be considered the light/good/right side of nutrition,
a king-sized burger, fries and an Oreo milkshake could be considered the dark/bad/wrong.
What about the grey/neutral/balanced area?